Thursday musings on Friday — Thursday musings on Friday The biggest mistake I’ve made this past month has been thinking that I could brush aside how I feel about my dad’s passing and continue working as if nothing happened. Buried my dad on a Friday and was back to work on the following Monday. I…

Being the eldest daughter… — Being the eldest daughter… We have all known grief to a certain extent but we don’t really talk about it. We want to avoid the negativity that comes with it. In the case of losing a loved one the memories, we had with them. The last week has been one…

Why do they always seem to fail? — Why do they always seem to fail? Yes, I’m talking about new year resolutions in February. January was just a test run, everyone knows the year starts in February. As with last year, this year I don’t really have a setlist of new year resolutions. I tend to abandon mine…

Seasons are inevitable — Seasons are inevitable An ode to seasons Seasons will come and go. The leaf; vibrantly green in Summer, burnt orange in Autumn, dead in Winter, to only, burst into life and colour once again in Spring. So our lives go through seasons and we eventually come full circle into a place of hope, light…

The hidden not so hidden mental health disorder no one talks about — It’s the day after Boxing day and I’m just sitting here in my usual work-from-home chair and I’m numb. I should be relaxed, happy after the getaway weekend we just had. So many thoughts are going through my mind. I think I might have borderline personality disorder (BPD). I don’t…

To be vaxxed or not to be vaxxed? — To be vaxxed or not to be vaxxed? So once again I changed the topic last minute and that’s why this little nugget is late. This is really for people with a co-morbidity on the fence about being vaccinated. I have a co-morbidity and was very hesitant to get vaccinated…

Be kind to yourself — Be kind to yourself Published on a Friday; It is what it is… One day when I’m more adultier, maybe I will actually be able to get this published on time on a Thursday. I had a lot of thoughts to ponder on this past week, so I had a…

What are the benefits? — What are the benefits? My phone dropped from the bed that night, surprisingly I heard it when it did and woke up to pick it up, it restarted itself and it seemed to be working perfectly fine so I went back to sleep. I woke up the following day and…

I have learnt to live again — I have learnt to live again Adele said it is about to be a sad girl summer for me. I met someone amazing. We just clicked no need for trying to decipher what the other meant we knew off the bat. It felt like two halves meet. As suddenly as…